CUT LOOSE: (Mostly) Older Women on the End of their (Mostly) Long-Term Relationships
ISBN: 9780813561868
Platform/Publisher: JSTOR / Rutgers University Press
Digital rights: Users: unlimited; Printing: chapter; Download: chapter



Although breakups--whether celebrity or everyday--are a constant source of fascination, surprisingly little attention has been given to women who are cut loose in their later years. This is a book about (mostly) long-term relationships that have come apart. Each woman involved, the majority of whom are over sixty, tells of her experience through journal entries, essays, poetry, or stories. Although in many senses they have been abandoned, they have also been set free, untethered, and, for some, liberated sexually, mentally, or emotionally.

The book is divided into two major sections. The pieces in the first part are personal narratives. Among the varied voices, we hear from women in both heterosexual and same-sex relationships who have been left by their partners or who have decided to leave them. In the second section, the contributors look at being left and leaving from psychological, sociological, economic, sexual, medical, anthropological, and literary perspectives. Other essays explore the shared experiences of specific classes of women, such as single women, widows, or abandoned daughters.


Nan Bauer-Maglin is the academic director of the CUNY Baccalaureate Program at the Graduate Center of the City University of New York. Prior to that she was a professor of English at Borough of Manhattan Community College, CUNY. She coedited Women Confronting Retirement: A Nontraditional Guide , "Bad Girls/Good Girls": Women, Sex, and Power in the Nineties (both from Rutgers University Press), and Women and Stepfamilies: Voices of Anger and Love .
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